Category: Relationships
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Do you Want This Ring From the Home Team or Not?
I am about to drop free game. You need to listen if you are a woman who strongly desires to marry or date within your race. If you don’t want to date someone from a country you can’t pronounce, a language you can’t understand, and a culture that doesn’t welcome you, this blog is for…
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Why Women Posting Cryptic Messages About Men Lowers Their Dating Stock
It’s been a year since you separated from your ex, and now you feel ready to date again. You go on a few dates, but you are frustrated with your perceived quality of men. To release your frustration, log in to your social media account and begin reposting memes and writing cryptic messages that allude…
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Addicted: Drug of Choice one's Self
Much of what I share in this blog will sound like good old-fashioned narcissism, but today we are going deeper. Narcissists are generally described as people who feel they are fine as they are, and it is everyone else that needs to change. One of the main points of emphasis that I will use to…
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Control Freaks
Today, I will discuss a fascinating population that does not get enough coverage. These people need to control much like eating, breathing, and sleeping. It perplexes me how easily people willingly relinquish control to self-appointed Shepards. I can’t count the times I have seen people allow controlling personalities to think for them, even when they…
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Women that Weaponize Children in Breakups
There is an unfortunate trend of some women using their children to hurt the father after the relationship has concluded. This counterproductive parenting strategy is most present when the man has damaged the woman. There are several fundamental flaws with this type of behavior. To begin, only the child suffers when their father is not…
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Do you Enjoy Breaking Down Your Partner
Rarely are relationships easy. Two individuals coming from two different family systems, it is a wonder we even try. What I find odd is the tendency for people in committed relationships to break down their significant others. It raises the question, does one actually consider their partner significant, and does he or she enjoy causing…
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Mama Loved you Before you had a Mind of Your Own
Many children confess to having had inseparable relationships with their mothers when they were little. However, everything changed when they entered adolescence and began to show signs that they desired autonomy. It was as if they went from being their mom’s everything to meaning virtually nothing to her. Many reports that their mothers would engage…
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Been Together ten Years and Have Five Kids, but not Ready for Marriage
There is a terrible trend in which individuals stay in long-term relationships with multiple children but claim they are not ready to get married. These individuals claim to believe in marriage but want to ensure the marriage lasts. Often people use the excuse that they are afraid getting married may change the relationship into something…
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Children Were Never Intended to be Healers
This blog will address one of the worst yet most common reasons people have children. No, it is not to collect checks from the government or as an attempt to entrap someone. Too often, individuals have children to heal emotional wounds within themselves. Generally, these wounds stem from unresolved issues from childhood. Unfortunately, many adults…
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We Know About the men but What About the Women
Women’s liberation from the oppressive ideals seen in patriarchal societies tends to provoke hypervigilant responses towards any sexism reminiscent of those darker times. Presently, progress has been significant but has not come without consequences. The modern social unacceptability for men to comment on anything women do has forced many women to figure out how to…